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pixari.blog
Notes on engineering, AI, leadership, and building things that matter.
How I Built My Perfect Family Budget App in Just 3 Days
Frustrated by budget apps that couldn't tell me where my money went, I built my own with Next.js and automation—and got real visibility in days.
The Year I Stopped Apologizing for the Chaos
Parenting young kids while leading a team: on guilt, the myth of balance, and finally refusing to apologize for being human.
The Abundance Trap: Why We Are Renting the Future
AI doesn't abolish scarcity—it reorganizes it. Why cheap output hides who controls the real choke points: compute, energy, and capacity.
The Paradox of AI-Acceleration: Why We Are Typing Faster but Shipping Slower
AI lets us generate more code—but cycle times aren't dropping. Why velocity without tests, review, and observability just adds mass and risk.
Don't ask AI to build the house. Ask it to build the scaffolding.
The real value of AI in development isn't production code—it's support code: tooling, tests, and scaffolding that gets you to the hard part faster.
Build for Today or Don't Build at All
Future-proof architecture often hides fear of shipping. Why building for today beats hedging with abstraction—and how to ship without the vanity.
The Trap of the Hero
Being the person who saves the day feels like respect—but it's often a trap. Why the hero role becomes a bottleneck and how to let go.
When the hard part was the point
Solving a problem in seconds with AI left me feeling robbed—of the struggle, the flow, and the identity built around enduring the friction.
Betting on Engineering, Not Trends
The AI hype will fade but the tech won't. How to prepare your engineering practices and codebase for what comes next—without buying the noise.
Why Empathy is a Hard Skill
Empathy isn't soft—it's what makes radical candor work. How caring personally and challenging directly build teams that perform and trust.